I have been my girlfriend for a little over 10 months, and I love her dearly, but I feel like I'm beginning to fall out of love and I don't want to be with her any more. I have told her that I am feeling unhappy about the relationship and she cried and said she would try harder. After a week she admitted to me that she hadn't tried harder at all. That hurt me. A few days after that I told her that I felt like I was falling out of love. It's mainly because of all the fights we have, we fight about the smallest stuff and it's always pointless, but it's so frequent that I can't handle it. We are very different people and we have completely different mindset, she is very fragile and I don't want to hurt her. This will be the first time I break up with a girl and I feel so nervous about it, I will feel like a horrible person for it. I don't want her to hate me. I don't want to hurt her, but continuing to see her is causing me pain. What can I do in order to preserve her feelings but still break it off with her?